Posts from ‘Kindness’

Jun
29

"A gift for me...but from whom?" by Per Ola Wiberg ~ PowiChristmas morning, southeastern New Mexico, 1968. Vicki knocked on our door at 8 o’clock sharp. Our mother let her in, just like she had done the previous year. Alice, Jean and I watched in irritation as Vicki crawled through our holiday bootie, nice things like Barbie dolls and pogo sticks and new sets of water paints. Vickie “ooh’d” and “aah’d” over the gifting wisdom of our parents as she sat down to play with our wonders.

My sisters and I didn’t like Vicki touching our stuff because she was a grubby 9-year-old waif who ran around our neighborhood looking so poor that it embarrassed us. She stank of sweaty feet and bean-farts and we were sure that she was the one who’d spread lice through Monterrey Elementary last spring. Above her sooty face sat tangled strands of thin red hair and her blue jeans were shiny from weeks of compressed dirt.

Throughout the year, Vicki would wander up to our end of the long street, but she had no friends there except for our mother, who, upon catching a glimpse of her standing alone on the curb, would insist that one of us play with her. As I was the youngest in my family and Vicki’s age, I was made to do the unfortunate deed. Continue Reading

Jun
21

reminders from the dashboard by jillallyn

Have you ever wondered if small acts of kindness really make a difference?  Many times we do things not expecting to make a difference at all and at other times we are certain that our generosity will change the world.  So does holding open a door for someone make an impact on their day?  Can giving a lost person direction, change their life?  I am not sure of the answer, but in some cases, I now know these acts can be that powerful.

It was a cold December day in the Eastern US, where I live.  I was out getting the mail, when I noticed an envelope addressed to an unfamiliar name.  I was sure that it was a Christmas card, given its shape and the cute snowman stickers on it.  The addresses puzzled me.  It was mailed from the West to someone located in the South-West…so how did it ever end up in my mailbox? I wrote a little note on the back of the envelope:

Hope this reaches you in time for Christmas.  Sorry, it took a detour to upstate New York!

~Barb

Then I sent it off. Continue Reading